my grandpa is a serial boob- grazer.... help?!?!?
so i am a little more voluptuous, in that area, than a lot of people in my family. even my grandma. anyway, my grandpa keeps feeling me up! "accidentally", of course. like, he'll go in for a hug, and try to, you know. or, he'll help me down from a rock... we go hiking a lot. i love my granpa a lot, and i know that he is a nice guy and all... he is the most amazing guy ever! better than my dad.. and i know for a fact that my grandpa loves me! but i don't know what to do in this situation. i can't tell anyone in my family! and i don't want to hurt his feelings... what do i do?!
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I think you should let him appreciate your boobs, even if it is weird. He's an old guy, he's probably losing parts of his mind as we speak. Let him enjoy your boobs (which apparently are amazing if your own grandfather is touching them) while he's still alive.
No offence, but he's probably sick of your grandmas boobs and wants to remember what firm breasts are like since she's probably sagging like a pancake nailed to a wall.
The first answer is actually really good. Saying that aloud allows you to shame him about that behavior, let him know you won't allow it to keep happening and keeps you from having to really tell your family while letting them think "hmmm" if it should keep happening,
no choice but to say aloud, next time it happens, "grandpa when u bump against my breast it hurts!"