I feel like I am not a bad looking guy but I always get blown off by a woman when I ask her out because of my lack of self confindece... What can I do to get her past that and show her what a real, respectful, and loving man is like... Or what can I do to build my self confidence? P.s. I play sports (basketball & track) but I have no confidence with women
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For women:
Don't ask her to go out with you right away. Get to know her first through small talk and small get togethers. Don't think of dating as a goal for all relationships. Some people have the idea that when they meet someone they like, they should date them as soon as possible. Don't! Have fun, meet lots of friends, and save the drama for someone you really do like.
As for confidence, be yourself! Try challenging yourself to not think one negative thing throughout one day. If you can do that, try to do two days. Nothing's wrong with you, because you're the only you there is. :)
Hang out with other confident guys.
Find a female friend and ask her to be honest as to why women may not be finding you attractive. I would bet there is more to it than confidence.
the trick is to plan out what you want to get across to her, form a few lines to get that across, smile, get fairly close to her (shake her hand maybe, the closer the better without being creepy), and make it short and sweet, leave while its going well, ask for her number maybe
Do you smell alright... if SO the right Girl probably hasn't stepped foot into your life yet... if you do stink take a damn shower! problem solved!