im a super paranoid freak about STDs and herpes and everything. I have trouble dating because even the kissing part freaks me out. everyone ive dated has been a long time friend or has been tested for me even before the kissing! how do people kiss people on first dates and stuff without worrying about catching herpes?? like cant you get herpes from kissing..like HSV-2 the genital herpes! lets say a guy i date a few times goes in to kiss me but he has HSV-2, then i get it too orally right? and for life? and cant you catch it even if the person isnt having an outbreak? help please :(