How do you cope?
when it seems like almost your entire family, or atleast the ones that are closest to you just don't care? I mean they treat u like sh it & u just don't understand why? Do u ignore them? What if that makes it worse? Do u cut them off ur life completely? I have trouble breathing at night when im sleeping because they stress me out soo bad. I wanna try & make things better but every time it feels like we are on the right track, it all falls apart again. I know there is no such thing as a perfect family, but how to deal this?
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You did not say who doesn't care. Is it your parents, or who?
If you feel a certain way, and if this is about your parents or other adult members of the family, then tell them you need to talk... let them know how you feel. "I feel no one cares"... and however else you feel. You could write a list of your feelings before the conversation... and use it when you talk.
If it's your brothers or sisters, well, sometimes siblings butt heads. It's normal. I'd ignore them and not react to them. You could also talk with your parents about this. It's their responsibility to mange and discipline all the kids.
otherwise, if you know an adult you trust and respect, and who knows your situation, it might be a good idea to talk with them for good advice and direction.
i'm also sending hugs and hoping you will get some good answers here.
well coco puffy (hahaha) you cant pick ur family so you gotta deal with each other me and my sisters didnt get along until we all got a lil older.... no need to fret .... stand up for urself when the need arises and dont let n e one walk all over you .... n if that dont work JOIN EM!
You forget the things as if they never appeared.......
you just forget about lt